Success can be a really good disguise.
Are you starting to fade underneath?
May late-identified ADHDers get this.
People would praise my life from the outside.
But I was exhausted. Hollowed out really.
I'd spent decades learning to:
😿Mirror energy I didn't have
😿Meet standards that weren't mine
😿Suppress needs I didn't know were valid
Two burnouts later, I finally got it:
I really was successful...
At being someone else.
Every mask we wore is proof we once knew who we were.
What if the work is finding that self?